Saturday, January 31, 2009

Inner Beauty-An Important asset of life

Sometimes I used to think I should have been the most beautiful woman in this world,but then I realized it is more important to be a good human being inside.Outer beauty is so fragile, it has life of its own, and it will not stay throughout your life,but inner beauty will stay even after you die, in the form of your good deeds.

How true it is practically, I don't know but for me it is more important to be a good person than being most beautiful person physically,for me a human being should have good qualities.Of course it is physical beauty that is what primary thing we notice in others but this does not lasts for long,it is important that one should back it up with good qualities.Inner beauty is never tarnished.It is never too late to evolve inner beauty within oneself.

We all are familiar with the word "Beauty" and its definition but how many of us really understand what is real beauty? Different people have different definition of it but what bothers me is that why do we give more importance to the outer beauty which is short lived, whereas inner beauty that persists throughout our life and for some even after their death is not acknowledged and not given its advantage.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder",this is a very common phrase and very true.Things are truly the way we see them.For me the most important asset of human being is his "Inner Beauty",do tell your views about it,how do you personally define beauty?

We all have different perspective of life and I would like to share some different perspectives of life.

Some quotes that define a different perspective of life:

Having inner beauty is something you develop on your own, and I like to think I have that.
-Cindy Margolis

Inner beauty should be the most important part of improving one's self.
-Priscilla Presley

"It is not what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about."
- Dale Carnegie

"The true philosopher and the true poet are one, and a beauty, which is truth, and a truth, which is beauty, is the aim of both."

Poetry Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson
-American Poet (1803-1882)

“In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.”

-Robert Frost

Monday, January 26, 2009

I hate Comparisons!!!!!!

"I hate comparisons !!! I hate comparisons!!!",you will hear this from me whenever I see people comparing any two possibly different things under the sun.Why is it so inevitable for us to avoid comparisons. It is good to compare things while buying something to make a beneficial deal but I don't know why people cannot leave this habit of comparison to that only,why do they have compare two different human beings.I hate people when they compare their siblings to others.Everybody is different from another and we have good and bad qualities.It is our different qualities that make us unique.We all are good in different respects,why can't we then avoid comparisons.Our creator has created us in unique way considering that this is best for us. So shouldn't we respect him and not rate or even try to change an individual.Change should not be enforced on anybody,instead it should be self imposed.

As they say "Variety is the spice of life".It is good to be different and unique than to be lost in the world of similar people.

Our whole world is distributed into 3 forms of comparisons-Positive, the comparative and superlative.Higher the degree of comparison gets, more complex life becomes.I am not saying comparison is bad because if we compare two things only then we can rate and judge their values.Like when we go for buying a new AC or any other electronic item it is inevitable to compare products of different brands,we compare their rates ,features ,benefits ,etc..etc.. and only then we buy the product that suits our needs and fits in our budget.We can make a profitable deal only by comparing pros and cons.But that does not implies that we should bring the habit of comparison while making or breaking relationships.Comparisons should be kept away from human beings related subjects to avoid unwanted results in our life.

Stop comparison for good!!! As comparison will only lead to dissatisfaction.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Success v/s Failure

How important is to be successful that we even forget the importance of participating,the importance of at least trying hard by giving ones hundred percent to be successful.Sure, being successful is the ultimate goal but trying harder next time is what one should do even if one gets failed this time and should also give value to it and learn from it.Don't consider it complete failure because you are still a step ahead of others who didn't even make an attempt,due to fear of defeat.There is a saying "Failure increases experience and experience decreases mistakes" . So it is important to try no matter what the result may be,because even if one fails he will surely learn what should not be done to gain success.

It is always better to make another attempt than to sit idle and cringe about mistakes one made in the past.Best way to use your past is to take it as a lesson to avoid repeating the same mistakes again. What does one do when he/she fails? Don't we start finding the reasons of our failure? But most of the time we start blaming others for our mistakes since it is really easy to let your own burden on ours and feel free,but our conscious always know the real culprit.Our present actions determine our future,nothing else but it is our work that will determine our position in the future.

Don't we cling to our past? Ones who do so will always stay there and will never be able to taste the sweet taste of success.It is not bad to be a failure but it is the biggest mistake one could make if they do not try again.One should never lose the spirit of working hard.Never lose hope!!! Even if today is not yours but tomorrow can be yours,put efforts today to make your tomorrow better by learning lessons from your yesterday.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Desired Change

Today’s world has become a serious mystery for me. I don’t understand what is wrong with the people, why they crave for money so much that they have lost the real motive of living. They don’t value the beauty of being a human. I guess only devils rule this world.

The need for money will never end. They don’t mind looting the common man. Now even these common men are also looting their subordinates. Like there is a saying,” Big fish eats small fish”. The only motive of living is just collecting the money as much as possible.

Crave for earning more and more money has ruined man’s mind. They just want money by any means.The whole motive of writing such an article was to make people aware of what they are doing at the cost of humanity. We humans are becoming so selfish these days that we only look our means in every work. If it is profitable, we do it, if not, we don’t.

I know world won’t change instantly but if we try to change ourselves, only then, gradually, we will see a changed world.